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🤖 Literally, in English

“By force you will not be lovely.”

Насильно милим не будеш. Nasylno mylym ne budesh

🤨 What does it ACTUALLY mean? →

🇬🇧 What you'd actually say

“You can't make someone love you.”

also: “Forcing it won't work.” · “If they don't want you, let it go.”

📖 Meaning
You cannot force affection, friendship or approval.
💡 Why it's funny
The literal version sounds like a warning about a beauty product used incorrectly.
🧭 Closest English idiom
No direct English equivalent. English says 'you can't force it' or 'you can lead a horse to water', but neither is specifically about affection. There is no fixed English idiom for 'you cannot make someone like you'.
📝 Explanation
Said to someone chasing a person who is not interested, and also about clients, employers and in-laws.

🧠 Learn

  • let it go (phrase) — to stop trying and accept the situation — відпустити “It's over — let it go.”
  • force (verb) — to make something happen against resistance — змушувати “You can't force a friendship.”

🗣 In context

Він не передзвонює вже тиждень. Насильно милим не будеш.

He hasn't called back in a week. You can't make someone love you.

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Questions people ask

What does “By force you will not be lovely.” mean?

You cannot force affection, friendship or approval.

How do you say «Насильно милим не будеш.» in English?

Naturally: “You can't make someone love you.”. There is no direct English equivalent — English says 'you can't force it' or 'you can lead a horse to water', but neither is specifically about affection. There is no fixed English idiom for 'you cannot make someone like you'.

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